Today isn't about candles or cake. It's about gratitude for the few who care deeply, for those who show up quietly, and for the furry souls who love us without judgement. As the years go by, I've learned that the greatest gift isn't wrapped in ribbons. It's being remembered for the many goods you have done for people you know and strangers we meet. On my special day today, I would like to be remembered in that way. As we get older, a message, a hug, or a simple "thinking of y